I'm "the man who cannot be named".  I don't see how a one hour a week visit from a family support worker is considered too much support, "couldn't cope without support" is the child snatcher's opinion.  I was brought up to be independent, and the only reason social services got involved in our lives was because my wife has mild special needs.   Two years after we were married  we were still trying to get pregnant, we looked into fostering and adoption because we wanted a family and they said that we were ideal, just what they were looking for to be foster parents.  They said we were best suited to look after aged 0-4 year olds, but I would have to be the main carer because of my wife's mild cerebral palsywww.youtube.com/watch?v=va1N9r2Vieg