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My ultimate loves are music, movies, and photography. I love stuff that is dark, mysterious, and/or beautiful. I love nothing more than to rent/buy a new film and sit down with a bowl of popcorn at home and watch it late at night with all the lights out. Best this way if it's scary! I also love to just listen and listen and listen to music all dayyyyyyy. I play several musical instruments although piano is my best. I am also self taught in photography. I find beauty in remote things. LOVE art, too, whether it's on your body or on canvas or a sculpture. I just love being alive and seeing all things beautiful. Like I said, darkness and mystery is beautiful....vampires, cats (although I'm more a dog person), fire, magic, the night, etc. My political views are mostly liberal but I tend to vote republican because I usually like their candidates more (although more than likely in this coming election I'll vote democrat). I like having fun with my friends but I cherish my alone time. If I don't have my time alone I will go INSANE. If asked am I an extrovert or introvert I used to easily say extrovert...I'm not so sure anymore. I'm very much in my head so if you want to get to me, penetrate my heart and brain, not my body. I like control and I like getting attention although I'm not pushy and I'm very easy going. I love traveling! On my list of places I still want to visit, I want to go to: Rome, Japan, Africa, New Zealand, Egypt, Australia and several other places, but those are at the top of my list. I've already been to more places than people twice my age. I've thought about traveling the world as a missionary of sorts...but I'd have to be way more involved with church and stuff than I am now. Don't get me wrong, I believe in God and love Him very much, but I question a lot of things in the bible. But I don't fit any one religion, and it doesn't run my life. I also don't impose my views on anyone cause I would hate to have their views imposed on me. I will like you whatever you are, most likely, as long as you're honest and not pushy. "Religion is an illusion and it derives its strength from its readiness to fit in with our instinctual wishful impulses." -Sigmund Freud.

A bit of a warning here...I am extremely sarcastic in my typing, especially in my online surveys I do (although the previous was not sarcastic). Not so much in person.

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything." -Plato. The best music in the world is music that gets into my heart....music that gets me emotional, whether it just raises my adrenaline, or it makes me want to fall in love, or even if it makes me just want to run with my arms out and hair flying in the wind. I ADORE soundtracks and music I can live to. I live mostly on Nine Inch Nails and I'm insanely in love with Trent Reznor. If you can't at least tolerate NIN, then we're going to have serious problems. I also really love Filter, but I go on music 'binges'. For example, right now I'm on a Zero 7 'binge' (yeah, that makes me a dork and I don't care). Who knows, next week I could be on a Radiohead 'binge'. It all depends how I'm feeling. I always have my NIN in my player, though...no matter what! I have a soft spot for 50s 60s, some 70s and some 80s music. I like the old stuff, what can I say. "Doctor, doctor....Can't you see it's burnin' burnin'"<--Who would've known that song was about a VD, lol!
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American Psycho, Hard Candy, Everything Is Illuminated, Interview With the Vampire, Wedding Crashers, Death Becomes Her, Thursday, all the Back to the Future movies, all the Indiana Jones movies, Kids In the Hall: Brain Candy, Memoirs of a Geisha, V for Vendetta, and the LOTR trilogy. Dramas and horror flicks are my favorite. The last "new" movie I saw was "Saw IV". Way better than Saw III but not as good as I or II. You HAVE to have seen II and III though if you want to have any remote idea of what is going on. Even then it is still very hard to understand, even after it's over. Very good, though. A little too much full frontal male nudity of Jigsaw though, ick. (I'm not lying, he's butt ass naked during the beginning in this one scene that is like forever long and it's like totally zoomed in on his package, haha) Read more about it and other movies on my movies review page (number 2 on my top friend's list).

I tend to like reality shows, but I also like HBO shows and series. I'm really more a movie person, however. Right now I'm really into VH1 stuff.

I like books about crazy shit like serial killers and such. Recently, however, I've gotten into reading a mixture of novels from romance to suspense/thrillers. I just finished reading a romance novel called Irish Dreams. It was actually pretty good. I still think the most interesting book I ever read was on Jeffery Dahmer, either that or the book I read on neuroscience. I probably like this stuff because I have (well almost) my degree in psychology (and also in business).

Our boys in Iraq, all the people who helped with hurricane Katrina, Al Gore (for what he's doing for the environment), my parents

About You
Age:	25
Height:	5'5 when not wearing shoes but anywhere from that to 5'9 with shoes
Body Type:	I have meat to me but I'm not huge or anything, just look at my pics
Hair Color:	very very dark brown although most would say black
Eye Color:	natural: green, but I wear violet contacts
Favorite Music:	anything with a good beat and rock oriented (no country please) NIN, Radiohead, and Filter are my top bands
Favorite Movies:	American Psycho, Hard Candy, Everything Is Illuminated, Interview With the Vampire, Thursday, Wedding Crashers, Memoirs of A Geisha, Death Becomes Her, all Back to the Future movies, all Indiana Jones movies, the LOTR trilogy
How often are you on here:	currently....almost never. MAYBE once a month, if even. You can catch me every day on Facebook, however
Instruments:	Piano, French Horn, some percussion and a few others. I WANT to learn guitar real bad but lack the patience, haha
Exercise:	I work out as often as possible at 24hour fitness(about 3 times a week for an hour and a half to two hours each time) Would LOVE someone to exercise with!
What do you do in your free time:	hang with friends, fiddle around on the computer, listen to music, watch movies, and drive the wheels off my car. I love driving my car! I think it's cause I can go fast and listen to my music at once.
Drink?	on weekends when I'm out (not every weekend though)
Smoke?	when driving or hanging with friends and drinking, but I'd have no trouble putting them down or stopping altogether for someone who didn't like it
In the Opposite Sex
Age:	21-40 although I tend to go more for men in their 30's. I've even gone for men in their early 40s..but that's rare. I don't think I've ever really liked anyone in their 50's but I'm not necessarily opposed to it. I prefer older men, what can I say.
Height:	at LEAST 5'7 please! I prefer 5'10 and above. I can't help it, I love tall men.
Body Type:	I tend to go mostly for what I call soccer or swimmer bodies; they're thin with lean muscle. I just like pretty much anything in between athletic (but not meat head) and skinny
Hair Color:	dark and ALL THERE!!!! I'm really turned off by baldness and men losing their hair...I'm so sorry, I just don't like it, never have
Eye Color:	don't care as long as they're pretty....I tend to go for lighter colors, but it truly doesn't matter as long as they're beautiful to look at
Race:	I'm not racist by ANY means, but I've only ever been with whites. I'm not opposed to dating outside my race, however.
Drink?	as long as it's not a problem or a super frequent thing
Smoke?	cool with me although in the far future this may change
Bad boy/girl or Good boy/girl:	a little bit of both, not a ninny, but not a total ass either
Favorite physical attribute:	eyes, jawline, neck!!, hands!!, arms, thighs, hip bones, sides, shoulders......just about anything on a man's body....REOWR!!!! SO fucking sexy! I mean I don't know what it is about a man's thighs and hip area and neck line.....jesus!
Personality:	someone fun and outgoing, likes to have a good time and is very friendly and honest with things and speaks his mind. MATURE (but with a kids heart) and can carry on a decent and intelligent conversation.
Distance from you:	I'm not into the whole liven' far away thing so I would say not more than 4 hours TOPS although I have to already know you to drive more than 2
Financial Situation:	I couldn't care less about money as long as you aren't asking me to pay for you. I'll pay if I care for someone...but I shouldn't have to. I don't expect to be paid for. It is nice to have a guy financially stable, though.
Living Arrangements:	NO PARENTS PLEASE! I mean c'mon, I'm 25. Roomates are fine. There are extenuating circumstances, however, so if you live with ma and/or pa, don't freak out.
Independent/Dependent:	I like a guy to really crave me/want me...but I want him to be himself and not HAVE to have me or someone else there every second
Passive/Agressive:	Well, I don't like an overly aggressive man, but I do like for him to take charge. If I'm showing you clear signs I like you (and believe me, if I like you I'm pretty obvious)...KISS ME DAMMIT! Don't ASK, just DO IT! Would love for a man I liked to just take me in his arms and kiss me passionately and grab my hair and pull my head back to kiss my neck and..whoa...getting turned on...
About Relationships
How many serious relationships have you been in?	2
Have you ever been in love:	yes, but it was a very complicated situation and just not the right time
Ever had your heart broken:	yes
What do you like to do on a date:	something fun and original is best. I hate NOTHING MORE to have a guy not have any clue of what to do. Be the man, take charge and pick a place...don't make me do it. Just pick it and ask if I like it. If I don't I'll help you think of something else. Just don't be like...what do you want to do? Be like, We're going bowling, is that ok with you?
Do you like public displays of affection:	Not usually...I'm more a voyeur, however, when I'm drunk and/or turned on, that all goes out the door, lol
Can you handle long distance realationships:	If I love the guy, otherwise it has to be under a two hour drive.
Ever cheated:	no
Ever been cheated on:	yes, but I'm glad it happened because it taught me to give better blowjobs ;)
Do you get jealous easily:	not usually but it really depends on the situation
Are you clingy:	No, actually I tend to piss guys off with how independent I am...I'm super affectionate when I really care about someone, though.
Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee:	I hate to say it but I tend to be more the dumper....I've only ever really been broken up with once
Pet Peeves in relationships:	when the guy I'm with doesn't tell me what he wants, when it's all lies. I don't care if you want me to dress you up as a little girl and spank your ass while your thumb is in it...TELL ME! Nothing shocks me...I won't be bothered, I PROMISE!
About SEX
Turn-ons:	a man's HANNNNDS and NECKKKKK!!!!!! Biting, clawing, pulling hair, letting me take charge, taking charge of me, costumes
Turn-offs:	fingers or anything else near my butt, guys that beg...jesus if you ask and I say no..I MEAN NO
Would you consider yourself kinky:	i dunno...is a gerbil tube in the ass kinky?
How many partners have you had:	considering I'm 25 and have been in 2 long term serious relationships I have been with very few men.
When do you usually first have sex with someone:	USUALLY once in a full on committed relationship meaning not seeing anyone else and I really care about the guy
Do you like bedroom 'accessories':	whatever gets you off, I personally love them
Dominant/submissive:	I lean more Dominant, but I'm all about being submissive..I just have a hard time relinquishing control sometimes...although that fighting inside is what makes it even hotter
Is sex necessary in a relationship:	if not then masturbation is!
How often do you like to have sex:	as often as humanly possible if in a relationship...so often sometimes I chafe....but other than that I really don't like to have sex outside relationships for the most part
Do you masturbate:	the jets in the bath tub are my best friend
If so, how often:	I don't think there's a number for that.....jk, not that often although it has picked up here recently... ;)
Are you open to new experiences:	sure, throw a little silly string on me and call me a donkey
Ever been in a 3 or more some:	well, does a dog count as a third party?
Would you be with someone of the same sex:	I find girl's bodies super sexy, but I hate girl's attitudes so I could only have sex with a woman, no relationship...and only to her upper half, lol. muff=yuck
Favorite Position:	I like to stick my right leg behind my left ear and place my right arm under my ass with my left arm wrapped around my waist. Then I like to balance on one leg and hop while kicking my ear drum all while whistling Dixie...yeah, that's hot
Quick in the moment sex/Long passionate love making:	I like both but I tend to go more for the heat of the moment stuff
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