erm, thinking entirely too much, critical theory, queer theory, being nerdly, sculpture, books, reading, singing and playing guitar, play parties, plants, gardening, sex, BDSM, D/s, power exchange, sensation play, queerdom, (how do you identify?) identity-fucking, androgeny, sexual freedom, orgasms, mmorpgs, d&d, acting, Rocky Horror Picture Show, cooking, body modification, vulnerability, screaming, photo shoots, girl/girl, boy/boy, boy/girl, birl/goy, you/you, masturbation, sex-positivity, porn positivity, sex education, playing drums, music, life, philosophy, self-actualization/realization, feelings, dancing to high bpm/really bad gay music (you get the point), not relying on outside stimulants/depressants solely for fun, hiking, running, art, mixed media, biking, being myself, my current queer family and friends, nonmonogomy, wrestling, self-expression as a way to heal, grow, and love. being immature and playing.
Music
Andrew Bird, Shannon Wright, Bangs, Elliot Smith, Neutral Milk Hotel, Mirah, Estereo, Jodi Hates the World, Show Me Eyes, 1985, Mini-Life, Bright Eyes, The Gossip, Sleater Kinney, Muder City Devils, The Catheters, Songs:Ohia, Damien Jerardo, The Cure, My Bloody Valentine, Iron & Wine, Crooked Fingers, Fugazi, Archers of Loaf, Tchaikovsky, Skeeter Davis, Nico Case, Levi Fuller, Ferry Corsten, Armin Van Burin, Muddy Waters, Etta James, Billie Holiday, Ma Rainey, Levator, Robert Deeble, Rasputina, Therion, Nightwish
Movies
subtitles are a turn-on.
Television
no thank you.
Books
Publishing companies, books, and authors to be added as time allows under these categories:
Critical Theory (identity, race, gender, queer)
Bell Hooks, Judith Butler, Michel Foucault, Ronald Takaki, Riki Wilchins
BDSM When Someone You Love is Kinky by Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman, Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns by, The New Topping Book, The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy, Flogging
by Joseph W. Bean
Non-monogomy The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt,
Sex Education The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex by
Science Fiction
Isaac Asimov, Octavia Butler, Ursula LeGuin
Fantasy
J.V. Jones, Piers Anthony, Tad Williams, Cecilia Dart-Thornton
Graphic Novels Sandman Series by Neil Gaiman
I don't know what Demian, Beneath the Wheel, Narcissus and Goldmund, Rosshalde by Hermann Hesse
Terry Pratchett, David Sedaris,
Publishing Companies Greenery Press
”When are you going to start dressing like a man?"
"The others, the queers who have sex in public toilets, who don't "come out" as happily gay, the sex workers, the lesbians who are too vocal about a taste for dildos or S/M, the boys who flaunt it as pansies or as leathermen, the androgynes, the trannies or transgendered whose gender deviance makes them unassimilable to the menu of sexual orientations, the clones in the so-called ghetto, the fist-fuckers and popper snorters, the ones who actually like pornography - all these flaming creatures are told in earnestness that betrays no glimmer of its own grotesque comedy, that their great moment of liberation and acceptance will come later when we "no longer see our lives in terms of struggle", when we get to be "more than sexuality"- when, say, gay marraige is given the force of law. Free at last!"
-M. Warner, The Trouble With Normal.
..
I expected to feel discomfort or pain...
bearable at best.
When you pushed it in,
deeper
then deeper still,
I felt pressure
and dread
and shame
and fear
and hate
and warmth
and safety
and desire
and joy
and love
and your heart.
Beating inside me.
And I knew I was alive.
-John P. Egan
Who I'd like to meet: other gender outlaws, trannies, wrestlers, leatherfolk, art geeks and theorist junkies
hey dear! drinks and dogs sounds lovely! did Julian mention we met in vancouver? you came up ;) how are you?? is school done for now? how's life in general?
The hamsters and the gerbils have bred together. I told you to cork that shit.. but nooooo. Now I have all these herbils running around and Sequoia won't kill them because they smell like you.
i've been picking the abundance springtime flowers and it brings me back to last spring when i harvested gazillions of blooming beauties on the farm and told them stories of my times with johnny :*)
i've been on a debaucherous adventure ever since we spoke on the phone 3 weeks ago, but now i am back and would love to hang with you if yur free sometime. you going to any of the imsl events this weekend? i know of a possible swell happening on sat nite...
