WHY DO ANGEL BOI HAVE A FOOT FETISH OR MAYBE EVEN MORE THAN A FOOT FETISH:
Many may wonder what sets Angel Boi aside for a man that just
appreciate feet. Well, I can imagine it is many things. Keep
in mind, from my reseach and others they are alot of men that
just think women feet are pretty and that is as far as it
goes. But as a person from the outside looking in they
assume that just because a man says a women have nice feet,
that they must have a foot fetish. As you read this article
you will see that this isn't necessarily true in most cases.
Angel Boi is a rare breed and even though they may have other
artists, entertainers that appreciate feet. Ask yourself do
they really have a foot fetish? Evidently if they did perhaps
they would have been the first to introduce this loving
sexuality to the world since they had the platform to do so.
Instead, the most you have heard in the music industry about
foot fetishes is if an artists/entertainer says it during a
interview or an artist beating around the bush in a song
perhaps ashamed of what people might say if he/she express
his foot fetish thought music. Meanwhile others just to rhyme
with other lyrics in a song. Unfortunately, most are scared
to confess it thought their music in the way Angel Boi has
but if i know anything about anything I know Angel Boi is
the real deal!!!
Feet, Foot Fetishism & Foot Hedonism
An Essay on Podophilic Sexuality
by Susan Block, Ph.D.
"What is it about some people's feet that make other people
wild with desire? Who is a foot fetishist? A foot hedonist?
A foot lover?
Feet are two of the most denigrated parts of the human body.
We literally step on them all day. Rarely pleasured, often
overworked, we walk, run, hike, dance and jump on our feet.
Indeed, our feet are the slaves or pack mules of the rest of
our bodies. Yet feet can command tremendous passion in
some people. There are Leg Men, Breast Men, Bun Men,
and there are Feet Men (or maybe it's Foot Men). But unlike
breasts, legs and buns, the charms of feet are rarely examined,
except by podiatrists, pedicurists, foot fetishists, foot hedonists
and shoe salesmen.
Though my doctorate's in philosophy, not podiatry, I've
studied the pleasures of feet for many years in my famous
Foot Fetish Salons, as well as through my radio, TV and
Internet shows, my private sex therapy practice and in
my own personal life. Why feet? I love to explore love
in all its many splendored aspects, and the foot is an
aspect of love. After all, even if you're not "into" feet,
if you love someone, you love them head-to-toe, right?
The first part of my body I let my husband Max touch was
my feet. Now that we're married, there isn't a part of me
that he hasn't touched (well, I won't let him pick my nose).
But during our courtship, I wanted to take it slow, so I
wouldn't let him move his horny hands much above my
knee. But I did let him play with my feet, and oh, how he
played with my feet! He caressed my ankles, massaged
my arches, kissed my soles and sucked my toes; he literally
made love to my feet. And my feet fell in love with him.
And even now that we're married and having all kinds of
sex, there's a very special relationship between Max and my feet.
Foot Fetish Types
Before I get more personal, let's return to our general discussion
of foot fetishism. According to most experts (as well as my own
informal but extensive research), it's mostly males who are
aroused by female feet. Of course, sometimes quite intensely.
What do foot fetishists like about feet? Preferences for foot
types vary. Some crave big giantess feet, though most go
for small and dainty. Some like dirty feet, though most
prefer clean. Some like feet of a particular race, tanned
feet, athletic feet, high arches, polished toe nails, high
heels, leather boots, sandals, stockings, toe cleavage or
toe rings. Some adore massaging, pampering and pedicuring
feet. Others want to be walked on. There are foot-lickers,
toe-suckers, heel-sniffers, arch-ticklers and Imelda Marcos
types just into shoes. Some go for stockings, often relishing
the powerful aroma of just-worn nylons. Some couples do 69,
but instead of having oral sex, they suck each other's toes.
Some guys love to masturbate against a woman's foot, or
use her big toe like a butt plug. Others are into foot bondage;
they like to tie feet up and torture or tickle them.
Still others are "crush" or "squish" fetishists. They
like to watch women step in things, or on things like
grapes, jello, dolls, bugs. Their ultimate fantasy is to
be mashed under the foot of a "50-foot woman," but
since that - if it were possible - would be terminal, they
satisfy their lust by voyeuristically watching ladies' feet
wreak destruction on other crushable items. Usually these
items are inanimate objects, fruits, vegetables or eggs,
though occasionally they can involve crushing living
creatures such as insects or mice. This is where I
personally draw the line, as it involves torturing and
killing defenseless animals. Though I do love the crush-lovers
who keep their fetish to fruits and veggies. I've had tremendous
fun stomping on grapes or squishing my toes through cake and
then letting a foot lover or two lick and suck it all off.
Foot Lovers vs. Foot Fetishists
What makes a foot lover a foot fetishist? Both the intensity
and exclusivity of the desire. If you'd rather have sex with
your lover's feet than any other body parts, or if you must
focus on feet to reach orgasm, or if you'd usually rather
screw a shoe than a person, you're a foot fetishist. The
technical term is "podophiliac." If you are turned on by
attractive feet or sexy shoes, but your sexuality doesn't
completely revolve around them, you're more what I'd
call a foot lover, a foot appreciator, or maybe you just
playing footsie. You don't have to be a certifiable foot
fetishist to appreciate feet, or to enjoy having your feet appreciated.
In the classic sense, a "fetishist" invests god-like magical powers
into the fetish object. The true foot fetishist objectifies, glorifies and
downright deifies the foot, or shoe, or the foot in the shoe, with or
without the stocking, being licked, caressed, massaged, worshipped,
tickled, bedecked in jewels or stepping on something squishy.
Roots of a Foot Fetish
Why do foot fetishists fetishize feet? For as many different reasons
as there are different foot fetishists. But typically, fetishes begin in
early childhood. As a toddler toddles and crawls, exploring the world,
feet are often the first part of Mommy that he encounters. There is a
theory that says that if a mother doesn't pick up and hold a child very
often, his main physical contact with her will be with her feet; thus, he
is more likely to develop a foot fetish. This is by no means a hard and
fast rule, just a theory.
Intense childhood experiences with the feet of other relatives,
like older sisters or cousins, as well as friends and, most
notoriously, babysitters, may also lead one to become a
foot fetishist. Mothers, beware the babysitter with the pretty
pedicured toes, strappy sandals and an attitude; she may
inspire your child to like feet! On second thought, what's so
terrible if your kid likes feet? You could do worse. As long as
he's capable of love - and if you love him, hold him and give
him affection, he'll probably be capable of love - what difference
does it make if he's into feet or breasts, armpits or elbows?
But what about those foot fetishists who are so obsessed with
feet that they truly can't get above the ankle, and love a whole
human being? One reason fetishists become "obsessed" is they
feel that their interest in feet is wrong. Whenever we feel that
something we crave sexually is wrong or shameful, it becomes
ultra-exciting in a naughty way. But it also becomes frustrating
and disturbing, as we can't integrate it into our everyday lives.
Ultimately, it makes us feel bad about ourselves, sometimes
even incapable of love. Most sex criminals have desires they
feel ashamed of. Even if you've never done anything illegal,
if you're deeply ashamed of your sexuality - whether you're
a foot fetishist or just a garden variety sex maniac - your love
life is bound to be troubled.
Sharing Your Foot Fetish with Someone You Love
So many foot fetishists are married to women with whom they
never share their desire. Why not? They're ashamed to reveal
their true feelings. And the real shame is that some of their
wives would enjoy a nice foot rub or foot licking, if it's presented
well. They might even enjoy wearing fetishistic shoes or stockings.
They might even be closet "foot hedonists." But their husbands view
their own erotic interest in feet as something perverted that they
couldn't possibly share with someone they love.
If you have a foot fetish, I hope you can share it with someone
you love. Some men are adamantly against this. They wouldn't
want to share their foot fetish with their wives even if their wives
wanted them to. Their foot fetish is an obsessive masturbatory
interest, something they would only share with a therapist, phone
sex worker, prostitute or dominatrix, not a wife or girlfriend. These
men generally feel tremendous shame about their feelings and are
afraid to share them with someone they really care about. They can
be mortally afraid of being rejected by wives or girlfriends for
being "perverted" or having a "fetish."
There are simple, effective ways of introducing your foot
fetish to the lady in your life without much risk of rejection
or humiliation. You probably shouldn't call it a "fetish;" that
sounds kind of scary to most people. But you can use creative
and sensuous ways to integrate your favorite forms of foot play
into your lovemaking.
For example, if you've just gone on a long hike with a lady,
offer to give her a foot massage. Most women won't refuse a
nice foot rub. You might wash her feet first, if they're sweaty
and you prefer clean feet. Foot washing is a sensuous, loving
activity. Even Jesus washed the feet of his disciples before the
Last Supper. As you massage her toes, you can tell her how
beautiful they are. If she reacts well to the compliment, try
going further. Give her big toe a little kiss. Seduce her feet
gradually, and they will fall in love with you. That's how my
own feet fell in love with my Max, and the rest of me soon followed.
Foot Hedonism
As for me, I am what I call a "foot hedonist." I love to have my
feet pleasured, in part, because I step all on them all the time,
squeezing them into heels, dancing all over them, and it feels so
good to have them treated well. I have also noticed that the best
foot love makes the rest of me feel better too. I enjoy having my
feet bathed, massaged, rubbed with oil, kissed and adored.
Sometimes the pleasure does involve considerable pain, as in
when I get my feet massaged, though the end result of a good
result massage is a tremendous feeling of release, comparable
to the release one feels after orgasm. I call myself a foot hedonist
because - orgasmic pleasure or healing pain - I enjoy having erotic
attention paid to my feet.
Foot hedonists like me are often attracted to foot lovers like
Max. If you're a sensuous foot fetishist, you would do well to
seek out a foot hedonist who would appreciate your interest in
feet. But to serve a foot hedonist well, you must be sensitive to
the needs of her feet, not just totally wrapped up in your own
foot fetish.
Foot Massage
Whether you're a true foot worshipper or just an average
sex fiend, foot massage is a superb aphrodisiac. Often, when
I think I'm too tired or tense for sex, all Max has to do is
massage my little tootsies and I get wetter and hotter than an oil
slick in August.
Foot massage is also a great way to be sensual without
getting directly sexual on a date. As a first move, it's pretty
rude for a dude to say "May I squeeze your breasts?" But it's
quite all right to say "May I give you a foot massage?" Especially i
f you've just gone out dancing. And it's good for you! Reflexology
and shiatsu are massage systems based upon the tiny electrical
reflexes on the bottoms of your feet which correspond to parts of
your body. When you massage one of these pressure points, you
stimulate the analogous body part with healing energy.
It's an excellent tension releaser. Sometimes screamingly so.
When Max massages my toes after a stressful day, I shriek to
high heaven! Max doesn't just rub my feet; he rolfs them; the
neighbors probably think he beats me. Sometimes I feel obliged
to yell: "He's not beating me! He's massaging my feet!" It's kind of
embarrassing, but truly amazing. When I have a headache or stomach
ailment, it usually vanishes when Max massages my feet. Then he gets
aroused, and we have sex.
Here's a helpful hint for footlickers: If you want to suck your
lover's toes, but she's just too ticklish to take it, try massaging
her foot first. This tends to relax it so it won't go into shock when
it goes in your mouth. Sometimes, when I'm getting my big toe
rubbed and sucked just right, I have a positively orgasmic response.
I call it a "toegasm." And if Max is pleasuring my foot while I'm
masturbating, I have an orgasmic-toegasmic climax that takes
me over the moon and a few other planets as well.
For a sensual foot massage, use oil or lotion. Every foot lover has
a favorite lubricant. Baby oil, almond oil, aloe vera cream are a few
popular foot lubricants. Mary Magdalene used myrrh on Jesus' feet.
Try flavored oil so you can suck your lover's toes after rubbing. Foot
pleasuring is an ancient art. And foot massage is one of the most
perfect safe sex activities; it's healthy, sexy and doesn't involve an
exchange of body fluids - unless your feet are really sweaty.
Smelling and Tasting the Feet
Speaking of sweat, foot-sniffing excites many foot lovers.
Some foot-sniffers like it because it smells really good, while
others want feet to smell really "bad." For shoe enthusiasts, the
smell of the shoe - that heady mixture of sweat and leather or rubber
- can be extremely arousing.
Smelling, of course, can lead to eating. Max loves eating various
foods off of my feet. I cover my toes with caviar and sour cream,
chocolate syrup or honey, and he licks it right up, savoring each
saucy digit. His favorite podophilic cuisine is toes dipped in cocktail
sauce with fresh shrimps in between, a succulent hors d'oeuvre before
a full meal of sex. Since "shrimping" is slang for toe-sucking, we call this
a "shrimping cocktail." At our Foot Fetish Salons, we'll have shrimping
cocktails and "Tequila Toe Shots": rub salt and lime on the toes,
then suck them off and down your shot. Olé!
Playing Footsie
Foot fetishism can be a very serious matter. But feet can be fun.
Feet can be sweet. Who hasn't played the piggies game? Some
people enjoy foot sex just because it's not serious, but kind of
silly and childlike, much more innocent than adult genitalia. Max
likes to talk to each of my toes as he plays with them, treating all
ten as individual "girls" with distinct personalities. He handles them
like puppets in a Punch & Judy Show with the rest of my foot as the
stage. Maybe he should do an act: A Foot Lover & His Favorite
Foot..
Foot hedonists like me tend to be playful with our feet. Sometimes,
I use my feet like I might use my hands to play with, stroke and
even spank Max while we make love. I like to caress his muscular
butt with my foot while he goes down on me, and give it a good
foot-spanking when I want him to lick me faster.
Whew, all this foot talk is making my toes curl!"
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WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE FOOT FETISHES
